新年回家，適婚年齡的我們總要面對一件逃不脫的事情：相親。這些對象有的是親戚介紹的，有的是朋友籠絡(luò)的別的朋友。雖然我們很煩，但是也要領(lǐng)會他們的好心，畢竟現(xiàn)在都很著急找另一半，怕一錯(cuò)過，就沒有心儀的對象，不過，唐能正規(guī)翻譯公司提醒大家，相親歸相親，大家還是要正視自己的感情，不要因?yàn)橹?，就湊合了一個(gè)對象，因?yàn)檫@不僅是對你不負(fù)責(zé)任，對對方也是不負(fù)責(zé)任。

   As I learn and practice more and more， I can say to the one I love： "Ilove you， I value you， Irespect you and I trust that you have the strength to become all that it ispossible for you to become — if I don't get in your way． I love you so much that I can set you free to walk beside me in joyand in sadness． I will share your tears but I will notask you not to cry． I will respond to your needs． I will care and comfort you， but I will nothold you up when you can walk alone． I will stand readyto be with you in your grief and loneliness but I will not take it away from you． I will strive to listen to your meaning as well as your word， but I shall not always agree． Sometimes Iwill be angry and when I am， I will try to tell youopenly so that I need not hate our differences or feel estranged． I can` not always be with you or hear what you say for there aretimes when I must listen to myself and care for myself， and when that happens I will be as honest with you as I can be．"

   隨著我們上海唐能翻譯機(jī)構(gòu)學(xué)習(xí)和鍛煉的增多，現(xiàn)在我會這樣告訴我愛的人：“我愛你、珍惜你、尊重你，我相信你有足夠的實(shí)力發(fā)展成為你想要成為的人——如果我不阻礙你的話。我是那么愛你，所以我給你自由，和我共享歡樂與悲傷。我會和你一起流淚，但我不會要求你停止哭泣。我會滿足你的需要，關(guān)心你、安慰你，但在你能夠獨(dú)立行走時(shí)我不會阻擋你。我會時(shí)刻準(zhǔn)備好，在你悲傷和孤獨(dú)時(shí)站到你身邊，但我不會把你的悲傷和孤獨(dú)帶走。我會盡力理解你的話語及其中涵義，但不會總是贊同。有時(shí)我會生氣，當(dāng)我生氣時(shí)，我會盡量坦率地告訴你，這樣我就不會對我們之間的分歧懷恨于心，產(chǎn)生疏遠(yuǎn)的感覺。我無法時(shí)刻與你在一起，或者聽你訴說，因?yàn)橛袝r(shí)我需要傾聽自己，關(guān)心自己，當(dāng)這些發(fā)生時(shí)，我會盡量告訴你。”

　  I am learning to say this， whether it be in words or in my way of being with others and myself， to those I love and for whom I care． Andthis I call loving with an open hand．I cannot alwayskeep my hands off the cocoon， but I am getting betterat it！

　  對于那些我所愛和所關(guān)心的人，我正在學(xué)習(xí)這樣表達(dá)，無論是用語言，還是用我對待他人及自己的方式，我把這種方式叫做放愛一條生路。我不會總把雙手從繭的身旁移開，但我正在逐漸進(jìn)步！